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Originally Posted by sAKAsfaction
Positive relationships are suppose to be support systems, and good boyfriends support all your positive endeavors, especially the ones that last a lifetime. If your significant other can't understand that, then maybe you need to rethink your relationship.  |
Exactly.
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Originally Posted by soda
thats cool i was jw. glad to hear that a spouse would be more important to a sorority girl than her sorority b/c the impression i got was a lot diff.
but i get it now.
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I think maybe you don't get the sorority thing. And that's not to be condescendning. Most people don't unless they're in one. And even then...that's no guarantee that someone will "get it". That's because a sorority is more like what sAKAsfaction described than a social club. It's a secondary family. But most people think a sorority is a club. It's a stereotype, but a very prevelant one. I think unless someone has experienced the TRUE meaning of sisterhood (or brotherhood in a fraternity) it's hard to see it otherwise. I didn't really see otherwise as a new member. It wasn't until after I was initiated that I did. And again, I don't mean to be condescending. It's hard to see it as more than a club until you've "gotten it".