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Originally Posted by Still BLUTANG
this is a lie that we've got to stop believing. there is NO shortage of "good black men" or whatever color you want them to be. i know a lot of good ones, the problem exists because these good guys just aren't marriage-minded.
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oh i know there isnt a shortage of good men, we just outnumber them quite a bit
, and between the jailbirds, lunatics, and down low guys, we have to be careful. you are exactly right, men know that women assume there "arent any good guys left" (which is a lie, i have 2 single, successful, professional uncles who have never married and are in their 40's...) and they run with it.
men who settle down (granted she isnt a crazed drama queen) are healthier, happier people. im not saying MARRIAGE because that is a dirty word for some guys, but they have the advantage. its the few losers who play the field like they are getting paid for it, that ruin it for the good guys and they have to deal with us women with our guards up.