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Being single is not a crime. As women we need to let the man know exactly what we want (if you know what you want). When I met my husband I told him from the door " I have enough friends. We can see if this is going to go somewhere or if that is not what you are looking for then bye-bye." We were married 3 years later.

I also believe that if the man is not ready to be in a committed relationship trying to force the issue with ultimatums is not the way to get him to be ready. You have to be willing to let the other person know exactly what you want. If you just want to date then say so. Fellas when she tries to be slick and slide in the "M" word, if you are not ready for that or if she is not the one you want to be with then let her know. Don't string her along. The same goes for you ladies. If you get a man and you know he is leaning towards the "M" word and you are not let him know.

One last thing there is NOTHING wrong with being single in your mid 30's. My sister is 42 single, a business owner, is doing her thing and is HAPPY. She is not going to get married because EVERYONE else thinks she should be. She will do it when she wants to if ever.