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It gets easier, provided that it was an amicable breakup. Of course, I still wanted to be friends with my last ex but he chose to hate me and cut me out of his life for whatever reason. Apparently enjoying a new college is a crime?
Anyway-my advice is to cut all contact for awhile. It will hurt pretty badly (like it's not already) but it's the only way to mentally and emotionally separate yourself from the other person and remember that you can't use them as support anymore.
Also, go do anything you love and enjoy yourself. Go out with friends, take up a new hobby or sport you've been wanting to try, just throw yourself into something completely. I'd limit wallowing to about a week tops after the breakup.
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