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Originally Posted by ThetaLove
How long did it take you to "get over" your ex with whom you had a serious relationship with? How long did the relationship last (when you were together). I was reading the thread about how ex lovers can or can't remain friends and a lot of people mentioned they went back to being friends after completely cutting the ex out of their life for a period of time.
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The serious ex for me to get over: ~1 year or so. He was in the military and was shipped off to Japan. He did want to commit to me, so it was easier to break it off with me and I agreed to it. Our relationship was only 8 months and 3 of those months we lived together.
Today, I am moved on and am married for 4 years. This serious ex is about the only "friend" I have kept that I was in a relationship with. He's doing well and handling his business. I am happy for him. I speak to him briefly once in a blue moon.
I have another "frenemie" that was a skewed relationship that I would NEVER recommend to anyone. I will NEVER speak to him and what I perceive that he did to me--or rather what I allowed to happen, let's just say, "Hell hath no fury..."