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I, like James, am not known for the longevity of relationships. Usually my relationships just sort of fade away, so I know that I'm no longer interested when I think "I'm going to call ____" and then wait three days rather than calling immediatly.
The other big thing is when certain mannerisms I found cute or adoreable start to piss me off. That's a big change.
As for my most recent ex-gf, I knew that I no longer even wanted to see her ever again this past week, when she blamed me for some anonymous e-mail that got sent to her parents describing her actions of last weekend...(some stuff that I never would have thought possible when I dated her). She blamed me despite the fact that she and I haven't said more than five words to each other in the four months since we broke up. oh well <shrugs> Whatev's.
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