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Originally Posted by ΑΓΔSquirrelGirl
I'm sorry that some of us just soooooo out of it and dumb and can't understand...but some of us have a value system that doesn't allow us to degrade people we made promises to.
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Honey, I'm not saying those outside the system are "too dumb" to understand what's going on... nor am I saying that I would actually DO this to a sister or allow it to be done. The chapter I came from wouldn't have done it. I would be glad to believe that there aren't chapters who do it and there aren't reasons it could accomplish something positive numbers-wise in recruitment... but I know for a fact that isn't true.
What I am saying is that, having been through an SEC recruitment as a PNM (and hearing all the talk about chapters, good and bad), I am disillusioned enough to get why a chapter would make this choice. Yes, it's mean to do it. No, I wouldn't personally do it, because sisters are sisters and I believe that part of pledging a girl is knowing that she'll be a recruiting sister for the next three years. But I understand the
reasoning behind it.