[AlwaysSAI]

My SAI big was fabulous!! She became an inactive sister of Alcha Chi Omega the semester before she joined SAI. I think that's what made her such a fabulous big. She gave me the best gifts out of my entire pledge class--everything was hand made and decorated. The final day of big/lil week, she had modge-podged a bottle with magazine adds, filled it with my favorite color of sand, and put a note in the top--calling it my "message in a bottle". Anyway, she was great. We went to dinner all the time, got really close--I called her crying on more than one occasion. The semester after I was initiated, she kind of stopped showing up for meetings and then sent an impromptu email to the chapter anouncing that she was going inactive because she had decided to move back North. She left the chapter without an editor and completely distanced herself from every single sister. I saw her on campus once and she just walked by me and waved. It kind of hurt because we used to be really close. She's at some school in Conneticut and I don't think she has affiliated with SAI or Alpha Chi up there.

Me and my SAI little are getting closer now than before she was initiated. We spend a lot of time together and she went with me to get my last tattoo. I'm really excited to have her as my little because together, I know that we can make our chapter AMAZING!!

My Phi Sigma Pi big brother become one of my closest friends. She held me when my long time boyfriend announced that he thought we had just been "casually dating" for 2 years--WHAT A COP OUT! Anyway, she was studying abroad in England this past semester and I can't wait for her to get back!!! I have missed her.

My Phi Sigma Pi little is a girl that I went to school with for 6 years before I moved in the 11th grade. We weren't close in school and we're not super close now. She's really shy and that makes it hard for me to warm up to her. She doesn't talk much, which makes it worse. She's going to make a great brother, though. I hope we get closer as she gets more used to the brotherhood.