I am pretty sure that most organizations do a candle-pass or something along that line.
Nothing makes you feel better than doing a candle pass and getting to hear the whole story because only a few people will know. Some girls are very secretive and don't tell until then.
Try and get her sisters involved and be sure to also include her friends that aren't greek because they are a big part of her life as well. Let her know how you feel.
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