Phil:
And I must note that there are many fine fraternity members who do take their organizations seriously.
These are just my observations. I wonder what some of these org.'s founders would think or say regarding their members actions and motives today.
Please note that I mean no offence to anyone or to any organization.

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None taken; you were very diplomatic and insightful in what you said.
Good to hear from you, and congratulations on starting your college career. I hope you enjoy it as much as I enjoyed mine.
I am glad to hear that you are looking at fraternities. Shop around, however, and see if you can find what you're looking for: a place where you will fit in and where your beliefs will be not just tolerated but respected.
(By the way, I clicked on the link to your photography. You are really good! Will you study this in college?)
Phil