I agree. Hazing is very wrong- I'm glad that I never had an experience with it. When I was initiated in 1988, there was not a hint of it. I don't know that any of the other sororities at my school hazed except one.
My husband was also in a frat-I don't think they did horrible hazing but they did haze- sleepless nights, psychological hazing-I'm not sure. Although he was loyal in school , he doesn't want our children to be Greek. Maybe I will get the 2 girls in a sorority; but unless he sees a real change hazing & alcohol-wise, it will be no for my 2 boys.
Of course, since he's not involved , he can't really see the changes.
I also remember not being able to get a lavaliere because my hubby didn't want to be tied to the flag pole naked & have nasty stuff poured on him. I really wanted one but didn't want to do that to him. I couldn't wear my engagement ring for a few months either, although it was usually just the lavaliere that got you the "flagpole treatment".
