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DSTRen - no, of course it is not rude. You are providing make-up and hair styling for the bridesmaids at no cost to them. I would hope they would all be willing to have their hair done together, but if not I don't see how they could expect you to pay for it.
What is rude is a bride insisting that a bridesmaid have THIS expensive make-up or hair done at THIS chi-chi salon and then not paying for it. It has always been my understanding that a bridesmaid should expect to pay for her dress and shoes, and try to follow the dictates of the bride in regards to hair style and make-up colors. It's great if the bride can pay for more - but I don't think it is rude if they don't.
I have worn some AWFUL bridesmaid dresses in the name of my love for the bride! I gave my bridesmaids necklaces so they would all match. I also had floral combs made for them, but they could wear them however they wished in their hair. HTH - and that you have a lovely wedding.
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