At my school, UC San Diego, the fraternities have the complete opposite attitude towards Pi Phi. Personally I loved the two I met at info night. They were so sweet. Unfortunately I didn't get the same reception from the other ones I met.
But basically the guys love them and the girls would rather eat & digest a sandwich! I also don't think that I'd look good as a blonde. Harsh I know! But it's so bad that during sports any Pi Phi larger than a size 2 or brunette is a suspected ringer.