I'm not extremely close my my big. She is really sweet though. We had a GREAT Big/Lil Reveal, always say hi to each on campus, and go out to eat from time to time. We just have different personalities. I am closer to my Grand Big (both in the same major) who is more active in our chapter. I'm closest to my "adopted big" who was out going president-- so sad she graduated! I can't wait till I get my little this year!