1. Belated congrats on Theta.
2. AEPhi also forbids anyone who is not an initiated sister from wearing the Greek letters. New members can wear things that say "Alpha Epsilon Phi" or "AEPhi", but not "AEΦ".
3. Back in the day, we also did candle passes, with actual candles. We had a candle pass when I got engaged, and I had to explain carefully to a few people that I was engaged and not pregnant.
And speaking of candles, every year, the Greek Advisor would give us a lecture about how we weren't allowed to use candles during pref because they are a fire hazard... and every year, every sorority used them anyway.