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My big and I didn't get along until I was active for about 7-8 months. I knew I was getting her (there were two girls up for littles, and everyone know my pledge sister would get who she got as her big) and was dreading it, plus she wanted to wait to take a girl that wanted to pledge but couldn't afford it so she was waiting till the next fall.

Well, she took her the following fall and was a much better big to this girl (let's call her A). A wound up dropping her letters after a week because she just got engaged and "didn't have a need for a sorority anymore" (this is what A told me). After that we wound up becoming a lot closer and getting along better.

As for my little, we were close until I transfered and then she stopped returning my calls and stuff.

My adopted bigs (both of them are in my family, one my great grand big and one my great great grand big) I'm still pretty close with one, and speak to the other, just not as often as I'd like.