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I am a Sigma Nu and I found it difficult while in school to date ladies that were not Greek.
I was a transfer student so I was a little older I had been in a commited relationship for a year prior to transferring from the JC to University. I had always wanted to be a member of a Fraternity because of the tradition and the beliefs that Fraternities embodied. I rushed in 2000 and was initiated in January 2001. By October 2001 my relationship was over (due to her not understanding my commitment to Sigma Nu and my belief that Sigma Nu would benefit both of us in the long run and that I could be a valuable member of the organization). The people there to build me back up were my brothers and the ladies that Sigma Nu associated with (many happened to be Sorority women).
By June of 2002 I had meet a great lady who is a member of Alpha Phi and we are now happily married (our 1 year anniversary was earlier this month). Both being Greek makes our lives a great deal more simple. We understand each others commitment to our organizations even as Alumni.
I am sorry I wrote such a long and drawn out response to the post.....
I do have one question for the post originator.... Why are you on GreekChat.com if you have no interest in being Greek....?
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