No, I probably wouldn't date anyone outside of the Greek system unless it was a rare circumstance. It's a matter of common interests, you join the Greek system for a reason, and most people have the same reasons. Therefore, you are going to be around people who are very similar to you. Especially at my school, where there is such a large Greek system, there isn't really a need to venture out of it to find a guy. Also, I don't usually run into people who aren't Greek unless I'm in class, because the bars that I frequent are typically all Greek, and that's fine with me. I think it would be hard to date someone who wasn't Greek, because they don't understand half of the stuff you do. My boyfriend's school didn't rush fraternities until Spring of their freshman year, and I had already been in my sorority a whole semester. That first semester was so hard, because he just couldn't understand why I had so many meetings, and so many MANDATORY events. As soon as he joined, it became SO much easier and he was just as busy as I was. I can guarantee you that it makes life easier to both be in the Greek system, you have the same groups of friends, know the same people, and you typically have similar schedules.
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