Okay - not reccomended for anyone but here it goes.
For my birthday, i kinda did things backwards! I threw this "gonna be huge" party, bought WAY too much stuff (15 gallons of jungle juice) and a baby keg. now, my campus does not have houses period. there is one house (a real family-type house) that a bunch of guys pitched in and bought, and stuck their letters on it, but only like 4 guys can live there, and they have a chapter room on campus like the rest of us. anyway back to the story. i talked to a bunch of guys in one fraternity, who happened to own a a hole-in-the-wall building that was becoming a pretty well-known party place, and asked them if i could throw this "bash" there. I had only intended for my sisters to come, but upon speaking with these guys it was clear that i could not party in the brother's building and not invite all the boys. so it becomes a "my girls & your guys" party, but it was never a "social" party comes - random girlfriends (who i still don't know) were there, they were kicked out. a fight breaks out among the guys (there were even alumni at this shin-dig) one guy is lifted off the floor by his neck, and another guy is threatened with a gun
~~ complete mess. my best friend in my sorority is lead to believe rumors about me, and we've never gotten over that
~~ i lost a hat that i had to work very hard for
(sweet hat!) and i got to puke in front of God and everybody. Add to this a random policeman driving by about every 15 minutes and me falling completely on my face on the sidewalk and you have my 21st - it took like 3 weeks to figure out everything that happened during that night - and most of it i have a feeling would have never happened if the guest list wasn't so limited. It was a good night (i suppose) but NEVER EVER will i do anything like that ever again.
like i said - this is not recommended~