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Originally Posted by AlphaFrog
I guess having 2 kids, I'm going to pull the "love each one differently" card.
I love my daughter...and I hope that she chooses to rush, and if that college has ASA, it would be great if she went ASA. But, if my sisters there decided she wouldn't be a fit for that chapter, and cut her, it wouldn't change how I love ASA. Daughter and ASA are seperate loves...and if they someday become the same love, then great. But I know, it's not the chapter's obligation to keep me a happy and involved alum, that's my responsiblity.
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I think the responsibility is mutual. The chapter doesn't have to completely defer to you any more than they'd defer to a single active member, and even then, I'd say alumna opinions should count less. But the chapter isn't free to expect to do something that hurts you and also expect you to just suck it up and keep working for them.