[Kevin]

I don't exactly understand why you're considering a fraternity?

If you're concerned about your grades, those are always 100% under your control... or they should be. If you're worried about women, yes, the fraternity social scene is going to provide you with a target-rich environment. You still have to do the same work you'd have to do otherwise.

No one's going to really have the answers you're after.. at least not here. Just go through rush -- if all the guys you meet are toolbags, don't join. If they're selling something you're buying, join.