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I can only answer this on Hubby's and my own personal level.
We are either in direct conflict or exactly the same. At different times a weakness can become your strength. It is easier to site points that have been in harmony or discord. Keep in mind, our positons keep changing as do the roles we take.
Independant
Loyal to a fault
Kids-disciplin or puting them first.
Money-His is mine, but mine is mine.
Social-rather stay at home than cut loose.
Family time sometimes it's too much others, too little.
Inlaws-he is more comfortable asking my side for little favors.
Free time/Vacation-he likes cold, I want a cruise, Colorado was a great place in the summer, but we are both ready to find anoter destination.
We really do trade places on these issues as our perspective is different. Most of the time, we click!
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