[rufio]

alot of people just say call me later or i'll call you as a passing phrase, or a good bye phrase. a good amount of time if you ask someone why they didnt call they'll respond with "was i supposed to call you?" its like when you tell people see you later, it doesnt mean they're going to make a commitment to literally see you later. i allways say i'll call you later to people then never do. is it bc im an a-hole...most likely, but most of the time its bc i dont realize i've said it.

oh yeah, he obviously took the time to IM you meaning he doesnt not like you.

i think you're taking little things and blowing them out of proportion. also, i like how you're finding sage advice from strangers on a greek message board bc you thought all fraternity men think alike. i dunno, call me mean but i think you're a big cup of crazy.