think about the tone as well as when you're asking your sisters to hang out - do you sound kind of down, like you expect they'll say no, or are you really upbeat and enthusiastic, even when they say they can't? have you made repeated attempts to hang out with people? initiate conversation, ask people how their day went, how classes are going, etc.
the problems you're describing aside from the hair dyeing thing are common to any group of friends, as i've learned the hard way. if you truly feel like nobody would care if you left, if they're not treating you as one ought to treat a sister, then maybe you should leave, but like the poster above me said, exhaust all options first.
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