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Originally Posted by DizzyIzzy
I have tried to connect with the sisters. I have asked to go out with them, invited them out to things I was going to, tried to meet with them for lunch...but no one seemed to take interest. They made me uncomfortable in every moment, and no one spoke to me during meals. Its not just a let down but I feel excluded.
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Here's a question. Are you going into these invitations expecting that they will say no? Really think about it...you might be hoping they'll say yes, but do you really expect them to? Are you asking them at times that are not likely to conflict with their other activities? How do they make you uncomfortable? Are there specific actions taken and things said? If it's just a vibe, it might be mutual and you might not realize it. You are obviously different than they are...which to me is a good thing...but it might have made you think that it would be you against them from the start. Which would make eveyrone uncomfortable. If it were me, I'd give it a summer. I know for us Recruitment practice and Recruitment might be difficult, but it's also a good bonding time because everyone is FORCED to be together and to get along for the good of the group. It might make a difference. If you've gotten through that, maybe changed your attitude a little, and still think that THEIRS hasn't changed...then leave. I know I'm one that says it's a real committment and I believe it is BUT not everything in life works out and the fact is that if a sister is being treated badly then the promise of the other sisters has been broken...and fair is fair.
Though I personally don't know what to think if there was really such an issue raised because of a little purple hair...there might be more going on than you realize.