Now, I am not a guy-but I am a girl in a sorority who sees a lot of partying. I know a lot of frat guys, in different fraternities, and to be honest, it is what you make of it. They could have lots of parties-but you do not HAVE to go to all of them-but the option is always there. You pretty much just have to check all of them out to get a feel for what is best for yourself. Every greek organization is different at every different campus! It's fun, and I wish you tons of luck with choosing/finding the right one for you!