Well obviously all of the aforementioned
traditional connections (Phirst Pham, Coleman Love, ZPBS, Indiana Love) have to do with history, so I think most people tend to gravitate that way.
But in undergrad I think it does have a lot to do with who you kick it with, so therein comes the variation. For instance, on my campus, the last Kappa line was comprised of guys I came into college with last year... therefore, I, and some of my LS's tend to kick it with those guys more basically because we were cool before the whole Greek situation. Does that make sense?
Anyway, my point is that because we kick it socially doesn't mean I'm trying to have them as my brothers. It means we're friends, period. Unfortunately, some other orgs. and individuals on campus don't see it that way.
What constitutes a brother/sister relationship to me is mutual support, respect and love. If we're having an event, it's already a known fact that the Alphas will be there to support, and vice versa. If it's somebody's birthday, chances are we'll have a Skee-Phi. I know if somebody is tryna mess over me, I can just get my bruhs on em.
These guys have been there for me from the start in every way, and I love them. Now, I got love for anybody that has love for me... but all these things
combined with the shared history makes them brothers to me.
