Sorry to hear about the situation, Josh. I agree with amycat...
Definitely let your Big Bro know that you wish he could be around for your initiation. And keep him 'in the loop' about what's going on in the house while he's gone. When he gets back, y'all's bond will be stronger because you've made an effort to stay in touch across the miles.
In the meantime, is there any way for another brother to temporarily "adopt" you while your Big is gone? We used to have a sister step in for another sister if she was unable to make it to a pledge event for her Lil Sis, so that the Lil Sis wouldn't feel left out. She would get the Lil Sis the same thing that a Big Sis would normally get (in your case, letters).
Good luck! Let us know how your initiation goes!
