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Originally Posted by adpiucf
It's a Facebook profile. Is the girl walking around wearing letters? If she's a member of an internet group (and she may have been added by a friend who is in the sorority to be part of their interest list), that doesn't certify she is in that sorority. I'd MYOB and get involved with the alumnae association. Let the chapter and their advisers handle chapter concerns. If they feel a need to involve the alumnae, they will. There will be plenty of opportunities for you to support the chapter as an alumnae, but as you have said, you have a lot of free time and you might be better served putting that free time into other activities.
Congrats on graduating and your alumnae status! And for being a concerned sister-- but I just don't think there is any reason to make a mountain out of a molehill or involve yourself in any collegiate drama.
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Disagree.
Collegiate drama is things like "Susie doesn't want to room with me next semester because she's rooming with Jenny since she's dating Jenny's brother." This isn't collegiate drama. This is a recruitment violation, if it has occurred.
It sounds like the OP is afraid that it'll look like the group is playing the "we're the struggling chapter" card and the rest of the groups will get mad at them. Well here's how that usually goes - if it was one of the stronger chapters and something similar happened, they would probably have NO compunctions about notifying the greek advisor, the other group's national, you name it.
Plus, the chapter advisor may or may not be Greek, let alone an alumna of the sorority, and have no clue anything wrong is happening. Relying on the advisor (chapter OR Greek advisor) to have a grasp of the most rudimentary NPC rules doesn't always work, depending on the school.
She's not going to go ballistic on this girl and show up at her house and demand an answer - she's just concerned that her chapter's getting pooped on. There's absolutely nothing wrong with just sending a "hey what's up?" email about a weird situation.