Before proceeding with ANYTHING, I would verify that she was actually taken as a new member of that sorority. Over and over here, we've seen PNMs that do not realize the "protocol" of Greek life, and list sororities that they are interested in, but have not yet been offered a bid by on their Facebook/Myspace/homepage, etc. They don't see how saying they are a "future XYZ" can be more harmful then innocent and helpful.
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