Yeah, I think it's right. If you ask them, you take responsibility for them.
If you think they won't act right, then don't invite them.
I think it's perfectly okay to make the graduates responsible for the people that they invite, and not to let in folks who weren't invited.
Just because you finished the eight grade or high school or even college, doesn't mean that folks who know you should get to interrupt the ceremony for others.
It's better to "punish" the graduates who invited them later than to further interrupt the middle of the ceremony to remove the trashy people although I have no objection to trying to punish the disruptive people too if you can figure out how.
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