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Originally Posted by Drolefille
Sometimes you can't GET early alum status, I don't approve of what she did, but I'd rather that someone unhappy with her college chapter remain an actual member of the sorority and active as an alumna than drop everything altogether.
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Maybe, but not to manipulate and lie to the group to do so.
When you are part of an organization that is struggling for whatever reasons, it seems to me that you can try to fix the group from within or you can leave the group.
To lie to the group and circumvent its policies because you feel it's flawed and return to it later as if you hadn't manipulated and abandoned it for those years, well, in my mind that doesn't play that well.
Playing alum didn't make the chapter better and I suspect it didn't live up to the values of the group. Pointing out the un-sisterly behavior of other member of the chapter doesn't make Skiing sister or the group look better. As a matter of fact. . .