Actually we went after golf.... and the place (just like anywhere gay, straight, or whatever) wasn't showing porn since it wasn't after 9pm.
Besides it was a business visit of sorts, my Dad was looking into some accounting issues Rick was having settling his estate (he was dying of brain cancer at the time) and as a business meeting he wanted to meet close to Rick's place and somewhere with a good Scotch selection - and back in the day the place had one of the better selections of Scotch and cigars (it catered to an older more 'powerful' crowd of businessmen and poltical types).
I got to try some truely amazing scotches and had an actually very interesting converstation with Rick's partner - the guy was an avid Civil War buff and collector.
So no there was no crying (well maybe some at trying the Benromach Vintage 1968), just a friendly gathering on the patio people watching (and mocking) while my Dad went through the papers and caught-up - not all of us are closeminded bigots or homophobes like you
