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Originally Posted by susan314

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Its so interesting that you say this, because I've seen smaller chapters sabotage themselves during rush with that sort of attitude. (Based on your previous comments/descriptons about Millie, I'm making the assumption that they might be a smaller and/or weaker chapter on your campus.)

Not that I'm saying that all small chapters do this - some small chapters are perfectly happy to be small and that comfort shows during rush. But, I've witnessed firsthand other chapters project almost what appears to be an inferiority complex - an attitude that says "we don't know why you'd pick us over all the other chapters, but we really hope you'll do it anyhow." It would behoove anyone recruiting from/assisting with a chapter that might have that mentality to read JessSigKap's description and realize what impression that gives a PNM - Jess was excited about them first round because she liked them, and then they sabotaged themselves by not being confident in their chapter.

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This is exactly how I felt at Millie! Thank you Susan!