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First of all.....there are a lot of guys who complain about "hard fake tits" but the whole reason a lot of girls feel compelled to get them is because of comments like the 38DD. Come on!!!! Gee, I wonder why so many women are insecure about their bodies.
Unfortunately we live in a society that has a very unrealistic idea about beauty.....someone made the comment that body fat and breast size are related.....for the most part this is true. But we are expected to have rock hard bodies with 3% body fat and then have gigantic boobs. Ummmmm you show me a girl like that and I'll show you one who has a very intimate relationship with her plastic surgeon.
BUT....here is the good news. Not all guys like huge breasts. There are men who like breasts that are proportionate to a woman's body. There are even men who like them small, believe it or not. My husband thinks that if the boobs are too big they make a girl look fat (this is another reason he doesn't really want me to do it.) But when he was 16 he was dating a girl who was 5'0 with like 38EE boobs and he thought it was great.....not that he doesn't like them on the rounder side, but that means like a D......tastes mature sometimes and the high schooler who would only date well-endowed girls often graduates to a more proportionate look. Taste is so subjective....we have been exposed to this supposed "ideal" so much that we have been led to believe it is the only attractive look, but it is so untrue. Men like variety. It isn't just breast size, but hair color, eye color, height, weight, etc etc etc.
By the way, society imposes some of these standards on men too....penis size being one of them. And it is a lot harder to change that than it is to change your breasts. And there are guys getting breast implants nowadays, to give them that big muscular chest.....not all girls like big muscle men yet men think that is the ideal.
I for one have no problem with a little bit of work here and there. I have experimented with my look a lot over the years, hair color and length and texture, eye color (contacts), tanning, etc. I have no problem with getting a little lipo or tucking done here and there if one is not into aging "gracefully." (Gracefully my ass!!! I would no sooner let my face fall or my hair grow gray than I would carry a black purse with brown shoes!!!!!) But for God's sake, do it for yourself, not because you are trying to meet the "standards" of some guy (or girl, for the gentlemen.)
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