OH boy...let me just say that things rings a very familiar bell! It's a tough situation..especially when you don't feel that you have the rapport and trust to communicate directly with this sister. I'm wondering why she's like this....I guess that looking from the outside in, it seems like this girl might be acting out and really be in need of help! Especially since she's sounds like she's changed 180 degrees from when you first knew her. My advice is this: I would privately have a conversation with a sister who knows you both very well and who you have a lot of respect for, and ask her opinion. I know she would help, as long as you didn't come across sounding bitchy (not that you would, girlie!) or spiteful. Just make sure that you convey your concern and not too many details that might further damage this sister's already compromised reputation. Good luck, and keep us posted!
