Every chapter has guys who don't like the AO. Every chapter has problems with dues (somewhat), every house could use some work...etc.
Just by reading your posts, I would guess you come from an old chapter, 120 years +, with many wealthy alumni and a HC Board that has a ton of cash (I can tell that, as you're complaining they're not fixing your house), and your chapter is probably stuck in traditions that have been around your chapter for decades (which is why you don't like the AO). Am I close on any of this?
My chapter had a rush poster, that never made it to press - however, we lived by it: "Apathy Sucks, so do the Other Fraternities". Don't be apathetic. Make things happen. You are responsible for your own Beta experience, make of it what you will. Be happy you're a Beta and not a Sig Ep.