[honeychile]

While I really don't care to tear someone down, I'm going to make an exception with this person.

First of all, BamaDad DZ, I have heard nothing but good about you and your daughter since the day either of you showed up on GreekChat. I know that I've missed your posts, and doubt that I'm alone in feeling that way.

If you look at her profile, KaiKey has deleted all but 2 of her 12 posts - on threads that were about "loser sororities". The fact that she even took the time to write such a nasty-o-gram shows you a bit more of her personality.

She doesn't know much about the NPC, either. Delta Zeta has a lot of closed chapters because they made some wise choices in the first half of the twentieth century - absorbing several smaller sororities, many of which were on the same campus and/or teacher's sororities. So, one of those chapters had to close - that's why so many chapters are closed! I've been to a lot of campuses, and I can't say that Delta Zeta was a weak link on any one of them! Two of the DZ's with whom I've had the pleasure of working were Homecoming Queens - and trust me, neither were a fluke!

Yes, there's a dust up right now, and some people are having a bit too much fun with it - to quote SWTXBelle, "there but for the grace of God". But dust settles, and while DZ isn't going to win sainthood at DePauw, most reasonable GC posters know that it's ONE incident on ONE campus that probably should have been handled differently.

But to paint the rest of the lovely ladies of Delta Zeta with KaiKey's paintbrush would be a tragic mistake. Please take her PM for what it's worth, and put it through the shredder! She's the type of person who gives whatever she touches a bad name.