I am only insisting that my children (male and/or female) pledge Alpha Phi Omega. If there is no chapter, they will charter or recharter one.
I am so dead serious. Me and Attractive#7 (absent GC poster) have already decided this. Her baby has already worn her APO onesie.
If my son(s) don't pledge Alpha, that's okay. Although I would like for them to have a fraternity experience, I'd be more hurt if they pledged one of my "must not pledge" organizations. lol
But serious, too.