Yeah, but sometimes we don't want to be your friend. We have them already. We wanted a romantic interest. If you don't want that, its is cool, but why should we hang out with you anway? What would be our motivation?
ITs a hell of a lot more honest than the guys that pretend to be your friends and secretly have crushes on you.
*shrug* just a guys point of view.
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Originally posted by AOPiLaLa
Amy--
I totally understand what you are going through. I dated a guy when I first moved up here and he was nice but I was just not attracted to him. And he was a HUGE partyer, which was great at first, but after awhile, I was really sick of being out till 4am and trying to be a normal human the rest of the weekend. What made me mad though is he was a cool guy and I could have seen us being friends, but when I told him that(and I SWEAR I was really nice about it), he seemed fine with it and then never called me again. I called him once or twice after that and he was very short on the phone and would never return my messages. So, I stopped calling. I still see him out sometimes and he says hi but acts very cool. So guys, I guess if we have enough guts to be good about things and not lead you on, please try and be nice and stay our friends. I know there are all kind of different stories and ways of looking at this, but I wish things would have been different.
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