I imagine you had a hard time sleeping that night, wondering if you did the right thing.
I remember my suitemate getting the "visit" about not matching when I was waiting for my hot rollers (late 70's, nothing but hot rollers in a ponytail on TOP of my head - then you take them out when they are cool and you have VOLUME - and a few funny bumps but that's what we did then as Nebraska hicks)
She then adopted a Steph Attitude - obviously to hide how she really felt
but it was definately a Steph.
Now, don't do this a one day at a time story!!! We all want to KNOW! Can you Tivo?