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Old 05-22-2007, 01:27 AM
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Originally Posted by cheerfulgreek View Post
But don't you think he should just leave and move on before he cheats if he's not happy? Don't you think communication is important in making a relationship work? I'm not saying that it will always keep an unhealthy relationship healthy but I think it's worth a try rather than just giving up on everything you've built together.
Communication is very important for any relationship. That is the standard. But communication is not only verbal, it practically has to be telepathic...

Reality states that folks won't leave because there is too much of a risk. Some people want to have their cake and eat it too. Some folks don't think that they will get caught.

The issue is that you don't select a significant other that lacks strong moral convictions. I know my husband had it before I married him. I have experience what that looks like.

The other issue about communication is that it is not always a 2-way street...
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