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Originally Posted by cheerfulgreek
There's no excuse for it to me. If I was in a bad relationship and he wanted to cheat, I would at least expect him to talk about it with me. If he still wants another woman, then I would rather have him end the relationship rather than to cheat. I just can't figure out why people even get involved in a relationship when they're going to cheat.
Kissing, and sex are definite definitions of cheating to me. There are also emotional affairs as well. All of it is so wrong.
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Not everyone expects to cheat, a lot of people do not plan on cheating. We all have weak moments and I think it's unfair to generalize about everyone who has ever cheated (and that may as well be everyone according to your definition).
What you consider to be cheating actually pushed me to find the courage to break off a relationship that had been near death for about 6 months prior to the act. I guess I just believe there are extenuating circumstances for each individual. Some people are scum, some are not. Some are serial cheaters and some may cheat once and then never do it again because they felt so damn guilty.