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Originally Posted by ccutoff
Kind of weird for my first post here, but I'm gonna start by saying
-I am not gay
-I am not a cross-dresser
-I don't have man-tits
-I am not fat(6 feet 175lbs)
-I am not a transvestite
-I am not a pervert
-I am 20 years old and play baseball for my university
Just thought it would be nice to get this off my chest. I am a guy who just enjoys wearing bras. I just like how they feel, the styles and all that. I have been wearing bras just about every day for about 8 months now. Except when I am at practice, games and sleeping, I have a bra on. I own 7 bras(all from Victoria's Secret  ) and my favorite is definatley the Very Sexy Push Up. I have 2 of those. I wore them in the winter under lots of layers, but now summer is coming and I have to be careful wearing bras under less layers of clothes. It's tricky to not be found out, and I have only been found out once. That was on a shuttle, and the young 20 year old woman who caught me had a keen eye and smiled at me, and whispered "I think thats great honestly." I don't know how she found out though, she must have hawk eyes. I don't wear any other womens clothes(no panties, etc.) just bras. No one except that random lady from the shuttle knows about my bra wearing.
I have never told anyone about this, and was just wondering what you all thought. I'm not gay, I just enjoy it.
For the guys: Do you think its gay? Have you ever tried it? If you saw another guy wearing a bra would you do anything about it? Be honest!
For the girls: What do you think? What would your reaction be if you caught a guy wearing a bra? Would you do/say anything or ignore it? Do you like wearing bras? Do you know any guys who do this? Be honest! Don't care how bad you knock me down, I want the cold hard truth!
Thanks in advance
P.S. I have enough chest muscle/tissue to easily fit into a 36A, and can ocassionally fill a 36B depending on style.
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hm... well I am big on doing whatever you want, regardless of what others think as long as you aren't hurting anyone (well... without their consent) so.... My first reaction (being honest here...) is one of shock, however, i've thought about it, and I agree with the woman on the bus....
Gender identity is something that is often confused with that of your genetically based sex (that of male/female) and society dictates how we are supposed to behave when we are of either sex. However, in the case of the transgendered, homo or bi-sexual, these lines are blurry, as they are in this situation. if you enjoy this behavior, then i say you do what you want, you seem to have a good head on your shoulders but perhaps it is not only the wearing of the bra- but the secrecy of it... does that make any sense?
you mentioned in another post that you wanted to tell others, but feared their reaction. I would investigate this further if you want to understand this behavior...
we can talk about it more if you'd like
-Maggie