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Truthfully i don't know what I would do in this situation.
Spiritually I would pray and seek God ~ persistance does pay off in the long run. Because you two have been friends for almost 8 years and he keeps coming back to you, obviously he sees something in you that you dont see in him. This maybe the person that God has put in your life to marry. He may be your husband although you haven't and don't want to cross those boundaries.
He seems like a good man and taking advantage of him is definitely not the right thing to do. Though you love the bracelet, your respect for him is even greater. In this case, I would tell you to give the bracelet back.
I'm sure he will be hurt but eventually he will get over it, and keep on being persistant in trying to be with you or he will move on and be a sweet, loving gentleman to someone else and treat her with beautiful gifts.
You have to ask yourself what do you have to lose and gain by dating him? Picture yourself with him. Give in to his persistance to give it a try. If it doesn't work out, because you were friends for so long prior to being with him, your more than likely to come out as friends in the end.
Good luck.
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