Thread: My dilemma!!!
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Old 01-20-2002, 04:07 AM
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Originally posted by PKTSU01
I'll just add an honest 2 cents in about this. Not sure if ya wanna hear it or not. No guy, especially one that cares about you as much as he seems to, will give you a gift like that and be cool with it if you keep it and AREN'T with him. I think you probably already know what the right thing is to do, but you're in a difficult situation either way. if you give it back, I'd doubt he'd be cool with it and still be as close as you are now, it would hurt him way too much. If you keep it, and tell him the same thing you've said to him all this time, he'll be crushed. Sorry sista, but you've sprinkled your magic dust all over this poor sap and he is essentially a ball of weak clay for you to toy with. Whether or not he gets messed up is now to you.

If it were me in his place, I'd want the braclet back. I would be hurt that it didn't do the trick but, i'd still care about you and RESPECT you for not taking advantage of me when it was easy for you to.

A tough decision for sure, but I'm sure you'll do the right thing.
good luck.

I agree. He will respect you even more. You must have that WHIP APPEAL b/c he is obviously helpless to your WOMAN POWERS (lol) ... One day, maybe, if your feelings change, he will be there. He will be SO happy when that the real thing has come, that your feelings have changed, and that you two can share more than you ever have.
Think of it as ALL or NONE. You don't want what he is offering, so, you can't keep the bracelet. If you want to keep it, maybe you want to think about it. If you know you don't wanna think... then don't keep the incentive.

While you may not be in love with him, you probably love him a lot. You are his friend... Keep HIS best interest in mind/at heart, and you will do the right thing.
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