My big brother: I'm sorry I was so consumed with college that I missed getting to know you even better as an adult. You were always one of the funniest people, period. I'm so glad I was able to open up and tell you that I honestly love you. Can I play in your hair now? I've always envied you for having all the Indian in the family show through your hair and not mine.
My cousin: Please don't keep these secrets! It's what has always haunted our family. So, if you're sick, please know that helping you feel and get better
helps, not hinders, the rest of us because we feel wonderful knowing that we could be there for you. Someone with a spirit and smile as beautiful as yours could never be a burden. Plus, I've always been a "straight but not narrow" supportive type. We can go to a Pride parade together. Just don't try to hook me up with any of your lesbian friends. I love you like a brother.
My youngest aunt: Someday, I hope I can be half of the woman that you are. You've always been known to have a beautiful, humble spirit to go along with your beautiful image. Even with this cancer attacking you and your body obviously in pain, you manage to still be positive and comfort
us. How beautiful you are.
My maternal grandfather: I don't know how you and Ella did it. How did you raise 6 pretty cool kids with decent sense and wind up being the coolest branch on the family tree? You even stuck it out even though your mother traveled and broke up many of your siblings' marriages. Wow.... How did I get so lucky to be descended from you? Someone that everyone loves, admires, and completely respects. You even make my Daddy involuntarily speak in a quieter tone because he has that much respect for you. You are indeed a special man. Don't let the Alzheimer's bother you too much. It doesn't bother us at all because you are the same wonderful Robert you always have been. Such a blessing to all of us that makes us smile just sitting near you. I just wish you would come out the house more often. We would never feel an ounce of shame being out in public with you, no matter what you may think. We love you.