Thanks Cream and Kevin and James.
I guess I am just beating myself up over it because it seems like I never like ANYONE and I wonder what is wrong with me that that has been the case for so long...
And this guy, well, I've held on for this long because I thought maybe I was being harsh and/or looking for reasons not to like him....
I do know now that that is not the case--that, as Cream put it, we just don't have what it takes to be the kind of couple I want and need to be when I am in a relationship.
Amy