thanks to everyone who replied...
to answer the questions...
I did not go through formal rush....actually it was a wierd situation where the sorority was reestablishing on our campus and I went through the pledging but never initiated.
I really do want to be in a sorority just not that one. I really don't know much about any other ones on campus . Recently though, I have decided I want to look into one. I have never been through formal rush so I have no idea what to expect.
thanks