I don't thnk Amy said she didn't like him because he was too nice. She is just sayin he is very nice, which probably makes it harder to break the news to him. People keep forgeting that no matter how "nice" you are ( and I am not sure what that means anyway) there still has to be some type of physical attraction or sparks to seperate a lover from a friend. And isn't that usually the diference? A friend is a nice person we like but usually don't sleep with?
But Amy, if you keep leading the poor guy on the least you can do is escalate the physoical relationship for him. Because you are the one creating the expectation. I hope he is not spending a lot of money on you.
So which would be easier, telling him you don't like him and offending him (and ladies mostly guys ae offended instead of being hurt) or sleeping with him. You might not want to answer that in a public forum.
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Originally posted by amycat412
OK, well I went out with that guy tonight and it was OK. It was fun, and he is NICE. Which is why I didn;t want to go in the first time -- lol, not because he is NICE< but because I feel like by continuing to go out with him I am leading him to think it is more than it is...? Does that make sense?
And not to banish him to the dreaded "friend" category, but... sigh. He is NICE. I am just not into him and I DO have to admit to not being the best at gracefully backing out of things...
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